hello sir

i did do that but it does show up on my website when i log on

i know that part.

there must be more instruction too this to get it so it will appear on my website. please explain further

There are a lot of people here with a lot of questions and/or helpful minds. Them who answers do it for free in their/our free time. No one can see your screen so your question cannot be understood. So:

1. Explain what your problem is. Exactly. Not only somehow.
2. Add some screenshots so people SEE the problem.
3. Add a link when the problem shows up in the front end.

You need to add a menu and link it to K2 categories or items or etc, if you want it to apper on the homepage, change the menu item type of the default Home menu to K2 categories or items or etc...