Antonio
Whats your exact problem is,
1. as you said you have chosen all categories, so you mean you want to show all featured k2 items on front page (If i didn't understand it wrongly), if so so its true any item you set as featured will be shown on front page.
2. the problem with banner module, so its usually by default with any joomla extension to keep the item id with its links, if they dont do so, you will get your first page with all modules and all other pages without modules, not sure if this trick can work for you in k2, but it works in joomla's default com_conent (article manager component), so the idea is,
Create a whole new menu in joomla menu manager, and whenever you set an item as featured create a new item for that k2 item in that new menu, and edit banner module to make sure its not enabled for new menu item you created.
hope this can help you.